My MEC Story: How I learned that I don’t need to do it alone

Editor’s note: My MEC Story is an occasional series featuring students and alumni at Medgar Evers College with unique stories — and a willingness to tell them.

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By Nellie Hamilton, Medgar Evers College Psychology major

When I first started my journey at Medgar Evers College, I knew that thriving in college wasn’t just about attending classes — it was about finding the right support systems to help me succeed. Coming from a background where I had to navigate challenges like housing insecurity and financial instability, I quickly learned that the resources available on campus weren’t just there for students in need; they were there to help us grow, empower ourselves, and prepare for the future.

Finding stability through Transition Academy resources

One of the first resources I tapped into was the Transition Academy, where I regularly use the campus pantry to help with food security. The pantry has been a lifesaver, ensuring that I always have access to nutritious meals, which is especially important as a student balancing work, school, and personal responsibilities.

When I faced housing insecurity, Transition Academy resources helped me navigate my situation. With their support, I was able to transition into stable housing. Not only that, but I was also awarded a grant, making my living space feel like home. Having a safe and stable place to live has allowed me to focus on my academic and career goals without the added stress of wondering where I’d sleep next.

The Women’s Center: A powerhouse of support

If there’s one place on campus that feels like a second home, it’s the Women’s Center. This space is where I found my SHADES sisters, a community of Black women who uplift and empower one another. The center has provided me with mentorship, sisterhood, and a sense of belonging that I didn’t even realize I needed.

The director of the Women’s Center, who has been a guiding force in my journey. She has not only supported me but also encouraged me to advocate for myself and others. Her leadership has inspired me to step into my own power — whether it’s as President of the Psychology Club, Vice President of the very first visual arts CreativeSoul Arts Club, or a student ambassador helping other students find their path.

Academic growth and career development

Beyond personal support, Medgar Evers has helped me develop professionally and academically. The English and Psychology departments have played a huge role in shaping my skills, preparing me for both the workforce and my personal growth.

As a psychology major with plans to pursue forensic mental health counseling and possibly law school, I’ve received guidance from faculty who see my potential and push me to sharpen my skills. They’ve helped me hone my research abilities, improve my public speaking, and think critically about the intersection of psychology, law, and social justice.

Giving back and looking ahead

My experience at Medgar Evers has been about more than just personal success — it’s about creating pathways for others. Whether I’m mentoring students through the Women’s Center, working as a high school peer facilitator, or volunteering at mental health expos, I’m dedicated to using my knowledge and experiences to uplift my community.

As I prepare for graduation, I know that the lessons I’ve learned here — resilience, leadership, and self-advocacy — will stay with me. Medgar Evers College has been my launching pad, and I’m excited for what’s next.

For any student navigating college, my advice is this: Use the resources available to you. Find your community. Advocate for yourself. And never be afraid to ask for help.

Because if my journey has taught me anything, it’s that we don’t have to do this alone.

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My MEC Story

A look at previous installments in this series, written by students and alumni:

My MEC Story: Advocacy wasn’t an option — until I made it one.

My MEC Story: Embracing risk-taking in the face of judgment

My MEC Story: Obstacles? That’s putting it lightly.

My MEC Story: Wife. Mom. Grandmother. Hairstylist. Graduate. Mentor. And still going.

My MEC Story: Deeply personal loss and sacrifice? Been there. But it has led to unimaginable blessings.

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